HIM

If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
DON’T STAY because you think “it will get better.”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behaviour.* Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.. a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals..
look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are,
and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

 

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INVICTUS

Out of the night that covers me, Black as the Pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul.   In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed.   Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.   It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll. I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.

flowers + puppy = happy me!

3 dozen flowers and a puppy!!

I can’t be happier on Christmas!

LOL

so yea. this isn’t a toy, it’s a live breathing

honest to goodness

cutest puppy i’ve ever had

i named it already!

LOL

I really wasn’t expecting this but,

here it is! hehe..

She’s soooooooo cute!

Been up nights cause she’s asleep all day

but, it’s okay kasi she’s  sooooo cute

Plus flowers!!

I’ve never had so many flowers. LOL

XOXO

==> wound to the heart <==

 

Yashamaru: (Cuts his finger) Wound your body and the blood will flow,

following fast on the heels of pain, but as time passes the pain eventually

fades away. With the help of medicine it heals even faster. But even more

dangerous is a WOUND dealt to the HEART, because there is nothing that has

more trouble healing.

 

Young Gaara: A wound to the HEART?

 

Yashamaru: Wounds to the heart are a little different than the wounds

to the flesh. Unlike an injury to the body, there is no medicine for a wounded

heart and sometimes it NEVER heals.

 

Yashamaru: There’s only one thing that can heal a heart, ONLY one. It’s LOVE.

 

 

 

 

if i die young.

 

And maybe then you’ll hear the words I been singing
Funny, when you’re dead how people start listening

nagdadalaga. lol

thank you robin!!

awww man.

MY HANDS.

 

I wake in the morning tired of sleeping
Get in the shower and make my bed alone
I put on my makeup talking to the mirror
Ready for a new day without you

And I walk steady on my feet, I talk, my voice obeys me
I go out at night, sleep without the lights
And I do all of the things I have to keeping you off my mind
But when I think I’ll be alright I am always wrong ’cause

My hands, don’t wanna start again
My hands, no, they don’t wanna understand
My hands, they just shake and try to break whatever peace I may find

My hands, they only agree to hold
Your hands, and they don’t wanna be without
Your hands, and they will not let me go, no, they will not let me go

I talk about you now and go a day without crying
I go out with my friends now, I stay home all alone
And I don’t see you everywhere and I can say your name easily
I laugh a bit louder without you

And I see different shades now and I’m almost never afraid now
But when I think I’ll be okay I am always wrong ’cause
[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/l/leona-lewis-lyrics/my-hands-lyrics.html]

My hands, don’t wanna start again
My hands, no, they don’t wanna understand
My hands, they just shake and try to break whatever peace I may find

My hands, they only agree to hold
Your hands, no, they don’t wanna be without
Your hands, and they will not let me go, no, they will not let me go

Sometimes I wake, I see them reaching out for you
Quietly breaking whatever shields I spent so long building up
I cannot fake ’cause when they cry I’m unspoken
They miss holding my baby

My hands, no, they don’t wanna understand
They just shake and try to break whatever peace I may find
My hands, your hands, they don’t wanna be without
Your hands, and they will not let me go, no, they will not let me go

My hands, don’t wanna start again
My hands, no, they don’t wanna understand
My hands, they just shake and try to break whatever peace I may find

My hands, only agree to hold
Your hands, no, they don’t wanna be without
Your hands, and they will not let me go, no, they will not let me go
No, they will not let me go.

 

Isipin mo na lang, Ham yan!

I am no different. Flesh, blood and bone. So why is it that you think i can do better or less than you? Did it ever cross your mind that in some ways things are not the same for us, and do not even think that I can withstand everything because even if i wanted to, i cant. And most of the time i break down but i am just careful to not let you see me in my worst…

It is true that i am able to keep a straight face. That is one of my best skill, to show everyone how strong i am during difficult times. After i have said my piece, convinced all of you that i am alright, i just wanted to get away and stay in a quiet place where i can think and digest and truly live my words.

BECAUSE IT IS NOT EASY. It is not easy to smile, and act as though nothing has happened, to make everyone believe that i am okay, to show the world that I CAN, all by myself.

Well you know what? i really can. I guess i just wanted you to know that i am not strong ALL THE TIME, that i sometimes go gaga when people are not looking because i am ONLY human. And I get hurt, and unfortunately, most of the time.

So there, i just let out something that has been eating me from within. Whether you realize this or not, i dont care. After all, I CAN, anyway.

Sing it out for the ones that’ll hate your guts! \m/

 

Sing it out
Boy you’ve got to see what tomorrow brings
Sing it out
Girl you’ve got to be what tomorrow needs
For every time that they want to count you out
Use your voice every single time you open up your mouth
Sing it for the boys, sing it for the girls
Every time that you lose it sing it for the world
Sing it from the heart
Sing it till you’re nuts
Sing it out for the ones that’ll hate your guts
Sing it for the deaf
Sing it for the blind
Sing about everyone that you left behind
Sing it for the world, sing it for the world
Sing it out
Boy they’re gonna sell what tomorrow means
Sing it out
Girl before they kill what tomorrow brings
You’ve got to, make a choice if the music drowns you out
Raise your voice every single time they try and shut your mouth
Sing it for the boys, sing it for the girls
Every time that you lose it sing it for the world
Sing it from the heart
Sing it till you’re nuts
Sing it out for the ones that’ll hate your guts
Sing it for the deaf
Sing it for the blind
Sing about everyone that you left behind
Sing it for the world, sing it for the world
Cleaned-up, corporation progress
Dying in the process
Children that can talk about it
Living on the railways
People moving sideways
Sell it till your last days
Buy yourself the motivation
Generation nothing,
Nothing but a dead scene
Product of a white dream
I am not the singer that you wanted, but a dancer
I refuse to answer, talk about the past, sir
Wrote it for the ones that want to get away.
Keep running
Sing it for the boys, sing it for the girls
Every time that you lose it sing it for the world
Sing it from the heart
Sing it till you’re nuts
Singing out for the ones that’ll hate your guts
Sing it for the deaf
Sing it for the blind
Sing about everyone that you left behind
Sing it for the world, sing it for the world
You’ve got to see what tomorrow brings
Sing it for the world
Sing it for the world
Girl, you’ve got to be what tomorrow needs
Sing it for the world.

 

Thank you for confessing! I forgive you.

Grabe BUT I still hate you.

Mind Rachel’s dialogue, Is that what you wanted to tell me?? haha .

Okay fine, ako na si Charice. bummer. But Im still better than you. damn